Fake Friends

It’s the second month of the New Year and God wanted me to share this very important message with you.

I want to ask you two very important questions:

  • Do you have fake friends?
  • Are you a fake friend to Jesus?

So, because you are lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spit you out of my mouth.

Revelation 3:16

Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters.

Matthew 12:30

The coming of the lawless one is by the activity of Satan with all power and false signs and wonders, and with all wicked deception for those who are perishing, because they refused to love the truth and so be saved. Therefore, God sends them a strong delusion, so that they may believe what is false, in order that all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness.

2 Thessalonians 2:9-12

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’”

Matthew 7:21-23

“Enter by the narrow gate. For the gate is wide and the way is easy that leads to destruction, and those who enter by it are many. For the gate is narrow and the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.”

Matthew 7:13-14

Pick a Side

In this time (and especially in this season), God wants us to pick a side. God is not pleased with lukewarm believers.

Either you believe in God, or you don’t. Either you love God, or you don’t.

Jesus says it better this way,

“If you love me, you will keep my commandments.”

John 14:15

Over the past few years, God has been separating His sheep from the goats; those who hear His voice and obey, and those who don’t.

Are you a real friend to God? Or a fake friend?

Our love for God is shown through our faith in Him:

“but my righteous one shall live by faith,
    and if he shrinks back,
my soul has no pleasure in him.”

Hebrews 10:38

Consistency Deficit

I realize that not everyone has always followed Jesus, so in the event that you’re new to the faith, I don’t want you to be dismayed by this message.

There’s a difference between not knowing a thing and choosing to ignore truth. The Holy Spirit will always lead us into truth. Once we receive truth and reject it, we’ll be held in judgement on account of it. 

Faith in God looks like consistency. God can’t elevate our inconsistencies. 

A season of isolation is a part of God’s recruitment process and often precedes our advancement. If you’re in a season of isolation right now, God wants to show you how to become more consistent with Him:

  • Consistent in obedience.
  • Consistent in willingness.
  • Consistent in your surrender.
  • Consistent in faith.

God can’t use our inconsistency; God can only use our consistency.

How do I know this? Well, God used consistent people all throughout the Bible (David, Joseph, Moses, Esther, Ruth [Hebrews 11]). Even Judas was used by God for his consistency of being a thief to accomplish God’s will. 

Are you consistent, or are you consistently inconsistent? God will judge us for what we do:

“Behold, I am coming soon, bringing my recompense with me, to repay each one for what he has done.”

Rev 22:12

Are we really willing to bet our lives on disobedience?

The Bible says that rebellion is as witchcraft (because it goes against the plans of God):

For rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft, and stubbornness is as iniquity and idolatry. Because thou hast rejected the word of the Lord, he hath also rejected thee from being king. 

1 Samuel 15:23

There are souls attached to God’s words. It is imperative for us in this season to choose a side. Obedience is better than sacrifice:

And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams.

1 Samuel 15:22

Beware of What’s Coming

I want to also warn you of the antichrist spirit (which is already here as mentioned in scripture).

There is a wave coming. Something is going to hit this earth like never before, and God wants us to be ready.

Jesus told his disciples:

“Watch and pray that you may not enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Matthew 26:41

The “mark of the beast,” as mentioned in the book of Revelation is quickly approaching.

When you see news of Elon Musk’s new brain chip technology (Neuralink; launched in 2016/2017), beware of what’s coming.

Also it causes all, both small and great, both rich and poor, both free and slave, to be marked on the right hand or the forehead, so that no one can buy or sell unless he has the mark, that is, the name of the beast or the number of its name. This calls for wisdom: let the one who has understanding calculate the number of the beast, for it is the number of a man, and his number is 666.

Revelation 13:16-18

With love,

Crystal Ngumezi

CEO, Founder | The Proverbs 31 Women’s Organization

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